Những ông bố bà mẹ Việt lười chơi với con nhất thế giới

Vietnamese parents are the least likely to play with their children Spent six years in Japan two years in France and six months in Australia Traveling to many places around the world and meeting many foreign parents Sometimes I still get startled Our Vietnamese parents are probably the most unplayful in the world We are surprised to see Western parents play with their children Although working in the education field they emphasize early education and spend a lot of time playing with their children and teaching them Sometimes I still get startled when seeing Western and Japanese parents communicating with their children In the My Dinh urban area The Manor near my preschool I usually take my two children to slide every afternoon And also saw Japanese and Korean parents bringing their children down to the playground The children freely played and had fun played with sand and looked at the trees We slid down the hill riding scooters together The mothers were sitting far away Whenever there was a problem the child would run back to ask their parents It is rare to see Vietnamese parents let their children play At that time the mothers were busy cooking and bathing while the fathers were drinking beer and playing tennis Sometimes you see some Vietnamese children being helped to go out to play but they often sit still on the bench or fed rather than allowed to play freely with other children Outside of the 5 to 6 o'clock time Children have no time to play freely with each other In the evening when returning home if they are young there is the cycle of pressure to eat and drink Because Vietnamese parents will spend a lot of time and effort getting their children to eat the children cannot eat on their own with the whole family Older children have to focus on their homework to prepare for school tomorrow Another time I took the child to the supermarket When a foreign mother was seen buying a toy with her child The mother gave the three-year-old about 50 000 To pay the cashier and get the item back after getting well and settling the bill Mother just stood behind in silence letting the child do everything on their own That's all the child can understand that the goods purchased with money as well as the buying process and self-checkout queue She is very quiet and intentionally lazy When the child needs help or has something to ask Then mother will patiently and gently help the child explain in detail Vietnamese parents are different Most parents choose the clothes They are also the ones paying How to get there quickly The story about the family going on vacation We are anxious to get to the airport Then he saw the young Japanese father holding the ticket to show his child To check what the child's plane seat number was Was this the correct gate Which seat number Did I get the child's name right I think to myself on the side I am really to blame for missing the opportunity to teach my child useful things Like that young father Instead of standing there helplessly Why didn't I turn that time into some peaceful moments And talking with the child like that father One thing to note is that the father's action was very natural Instinct requires no effort And there's nothing to be embarrassed about like most Vietnamese fathers when they have to play with their kids But clearly these are simple little things that a child needs to learn in order to enter life and live independently later It's really simple and gentle And it doesn't take much effort But it clearly has immense significance If parents don't teach who will Another time that left a deep impression on me was when I took my son to attend an after-school program at Unis My three-year-old son picked caviar eggs Inside the schoolyard a white boy around 4 or 5 years old approached my child and spoke to him in English Don't pick the green ones pick the red ones If you pick the green ones You won't see any red fruit to pick anymore dear I'm afraid my child doesn't understand English The boy ran back and said to me Is that your brother Could you explain it to him please A 4-5-year-old boy like that Who wouldn't want to fight for their children If parents don't teach these things it's hard to expect the school to resolve everything Far away I saw the boy's mother sitting on the silver and watching her child with a proud look I thought tha They diligently teach their children to be polite while imparting knowledge to them simultaneously forming for their children the skills of explanation guidance and aiming for the good Connect with the surrounding community and others Leadership and coexistence Awareness and responsibility of the public Protecting the natural environment They also formed from that Clearly when parents diligently teach their children their children will be the first to benefit But other parents and society also benefit In countries like Japan and the US playing with children and teaching them It has deeply rooted in cultural habits from generation to generation Playing with children naturally forms a habit In Western Asian countries Some countries are even poorer than Vietnam but they follow certain religions spending time praying and reciting scriptures Religious and benevolent activities with children in the family every evening or at certain hours during the day are almost mandatory for families to carry out continuously In Vietnam there is no habit nor is it regulated Parents rarely wait for their children That is a great loss for modern children