What Worries Japanese Girls about Dating Western Guys (Interview)

Japanese women might be interested in Western men but it seems like they're hesitating maybe there's something on their mind I hope those who are interested will find it helpful to learn what Japanese women in Tokyo are worried about Are there any things that worry you or could become a problem I think differences in religion are significant Do you still have resistance to that I'd like to know what resistance means For example if the other person is Christian I would want to learn about Christianity but I don't think I would want to study it myself I think he has a handsome image and is really cool I don't know because that's not what actually happened But if it actually turned out that way I think it would be okay Do you ever have things that worry you like little things that make you feel uneasy I guess what worries me is whether we'll be able to communicate properly I have the image of having thick chest hair Do you have thick chest hair Yes Since I like watching foreign movies after watching it I thought there are a lot of people with thick chest hair Does it used to be okay to date someone Isn't your face more Western-looking I kind of feel that way because I'm Japanese Does it feel like that's actually better Are there any concerns or worries My image is too friendly I feel embarrassed because I talk to so many people it seems like I'm becoming the type of person who doesn't talk to people so much the impression is gentle and there's a gentle image Sometimes you have a lot of expressions don't you Sometimes when you see things like that it's like the aura or something unlike Japanese people But since I can't speak English at all somehow I think it's cool that there's someone who can speak Japanese I think it's cool You say it's cool No it's not the face If I were to list things that worry me or that sort of thing Do you have anything Maybe the difference in elements I guess there's something common because I took it for granted I think there are probably things that aren't obvious to the other person But I'm good at English I also want to talk in English and other languages Because it feels friendly But I guess Japanese people are better Oh yes Japanese people are better I don't know the exact reason but I think there are differences in culture and things like that I feel kind of happy Thank you for your honest opinion I don 't really know because we don't have much in common You're tall aren't you Well but being tall can be scary Oh you know like that I think it's a bit scary You're tall Don't you get that impression I don't feel that way Yes I do get the impression that it's quite smart Are there any things you're worried about It was probably the difference in culture Can we align our values Cool Handsome Seems kind Unlike Japanese men proactive and active It's worrying to think about dating someone like that Sleeping in shoes How to treat women Seems too close Handsome Is he handsome I have different senses from other people and there's also the fact that I've never found other Asians handsome my family is Japanese but we have a bit of a tendency towards that Why is there absolutely no resistance When it comes to blooming if we start dating things to worry about this is a bit worrying Does it feel a bit different Initially it might be surprising but if we can understand each other that's probably good enough There are differences in values but Japanese people tend to be surprisingly punctual Westerners have a rather relaxed impression Language barriers That's right not being able to communicate Cultural differences Here it's friendly you know Girls for example Maybe he has a lot of friends like that Is it cool Deep eyes that 's cool If were to go out I'd be worried That's not language is it Language language Or maybe it's okay if I can speak English Is that okay It's impossible I can't speak it Is it completely impossible I can't do it at all Cool people are actually pretty common aren't they You end up noticing them when they're cool Really But if the words aren't in Japanese it's really scary I don't know Language barriers are definitely something that stands out I've never been good at English I do think about religion and quite a bit of cultural stuff Because you have to adjust to the other person I think there are a lot of differences based on culture so it's difficult if you can't adjust to each other and I think it won't last if you can't compromise It's about cultural differences There are definitely differences probably Even things like dining manners can be different I'm a bit unsure about that but I' m still worried I've only ever dated Japanese people I don't understand you know I can't write it from the perspective of Westerners There's a stylish impression and also the impression that they value women If I ask my friends who have remarried Different cultures and values I think that's the main point but it seems they've decided not to make any compromises If you keep that in mind things might work out Western men are friendlier more gentle with physical contact and take the lead It might be a problem here I can't think of anything right now There's absolutely no problem with that Handsome Do you have an image in mind I can' t speak so it's a bit difficult but if you can speak Japanese that's totally fine It's completely acceptable I think it's better to be able to speak a little because being able to communicate is important I think it's better to be able to speak but actually isn't it better to be able to speak Japanese No it's better not to be able to speak Is it better not to speak Why Because I really like English I want to speak in English I want to speak That means I want to get better at it What do you think about Western men They are too fat I think so I can't accept them besides the computer is big probably uncomfortable on the bed Being considerate For example someone who speaks a different language a person who listens carefully many times someone who likes Japan a person who likes Japan someone who is kind the most gentlemanly person A gentleman who is clean and polite is good This kind of person is no good Cheater People who can resolve issues through discussion are great I think I probably will study the language of that country but not someone who says 'you should adjust to me' I think it would work out if you were someone who asked me "What do you want to do " and listened That's how it is in that country so being open-minded and accepting it is probably important but in the place where you don' t value your parents why is that the case People who can't value their parents probably can't value me either It has nothing to do with appearance it's just nice if they are kind and fun to talk to If they can have a proper conversation with words that's good enough It's fine if it's fun A person who is caring and works hard Even more so if they are muscular Do you often hear that I like muscles that's why I think it's charming Being kind even among different cultures I think it would be good to teach Even if there is interest You can't be too forward But if they invite you to have a meal Then I think it's okay I feel really happy and grateful