Quiz: What Your Communication Style Says About You (self-test)

Do you ever feel misunderstood, or wonder why your words come out one way but land another? Whether you're the quiet type who avoids conflict, the bold one who says it straight, or somewhere in between, your communication style shapes how others see you — and how close they feel to you. In this self-test, we explore the quiet signals, bold statements, and indirect hints that reveal the real way you connect. It's not about being “perfect” at communication — it’s about being more aware of what you’re already doing, and how to grow from there. Ready to find out how your voice shows up in the world?

Credits:
Script Writer: Kelly Soong
Script Editor: Lois Yu
Voice Over: @amandasilvera
Animator: Tris
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong
Director: Tai Khuong
Assisted: Brisky Quach

Further readings:
McKay, M., Davis, M., & Fanning, P. (2009). Messages: The communication skills book (3rd ed.). New Harbinger Publications.

Alberti, R. E., & Emmons, M. L. (2017). Your perfect right: Assertiveness and equality in your life and relationships (10th ed.). New Harbinger Publications.

Wilmot, W. W., & Hocker, J. L. (2017). Interpersonal conflict (10th ed.). McGraw-Hill Education.