Gede Ricky Sukarta



"Mulih Ngalang: A Journey of Love in Balinese Tradition and Togetherness"

In Balinese society, every stage of life is embraced with meaning, tradition, and a strong sense of community. One of the most sacred and honorable customs is "Mulih Ngalang", a process in which a young Balinese man seeks out his future bride, paving the way toward a marriage that is blessed both culturally and spiritually.

This tradition is more than just a quest for love—it is a sacred journey, accompanied by the blessings of family, the support of the krama (community members), and the spiritual presence of ancestors in every step. When a young man decides to propose to his beloved, the entire community and extended family come together in full support, not only morally but also physically and spiritually.

Some help with preparations, others carry offerings (banten), and many join the procession to accompany the groom to the bride’s home. This collective spirit reflects the noble values of Bali: mutual cooperation, shared responsibility, and unity in fulfilling life’s sacred duties (dharma).

One of the most heartwarming and memorable parts is the communal meal. After the rituals, everyone sits cross-legged together, enjoying simple yet meaningful food as an expression of gratitude. The meal nourishes more than the body—it binds hearts together. Laughter, stories, and prayers flow freely. There are no distinctions of caste, title, or status—everyone is equal as fellow children of Bali.

This tradition is not merely heritage—it is the soul of the village, turning every life event into a shared journey, strengthening the bonds of kinship and community connection.

In "Mulih Ngalang," it is not just two souls who are united—but also two families and an entire community, brought together in harmony. This is the true face of Bali—full of love, rooted in tradition, and rich in togetherness.
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"Mulih Ngalang" Balinesse Tradition in Wedding Ceremony